Tuesday, May 18, 2010

What To Do During A Fight With Your Boyfriend or Girlfrien

Many of you who have been in a fight with your significant other have always managed to do the wrong thing. Whether it be leaving them alone or getting in their face about it. Both of these are things that though many couples say they like, never work. The most important factor in this is knowing your partner and how they normally handle fights. However, here are three techniques that you can try in order to smooth things over with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

One:

Do not yell. If you are in a fight with your significant other it is pretty safe to say that there is a great deal of yelling going on. This is completely normally, but it does absolutely nothing to help the fight. Yelling just boils up your body temperature and allows the person your fighting with to not listen at all to what your saying. When yelling, just stop and say I don't want to yell, this isn't helping at all lets jus talk about it. When one person breaks it down like that it completely stops what is going on and allows you both to catch your breath.

Two:

Never, under any circumstances walk away. Sometime when your so heated and you try to stop the yelling and it doesn't work, you just want to get out of their and leave. This doesn't help either. Chances are you are going to drive, driving when mad is not safe, so if you must leave, go for a walk to don't leave the house, leave the room or go sit outside. This is way better than walking out, leaving the room shows him or her that you are going to think about things without leaving them.

Three:

Hug it out. This seems a bit cliché and stupid, but it works. If you go up to your boyfriend or girlfriend and just hug them and kiss them, this will change the mood. It will not take the heat away and the pain of the fight but it will calm one another down. Allowing for you to take a deep breathe and them slowly like adults talk about your problems that you have. This works almost every time.

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