Wednesday, May 5, 2010

How to End Things With Your Lady

Boys, boys boys, it is sometimes true that all good things must come to an end. If it is time to end things with your lady there are only a few ways you can do it without, having her have a nervous break down, telling everyone about how horrible you are, and without ruining any type of friendship with her. However, if you want to just straight up get rid of this girl, then disregard those things above, this will still work for you. Here are three different ways to do it.

One:

End things as nicely as possible. I know if you are completely over a girl chances are you want to have nothing to do with her, therefore ignoring her or being a complete jerk to her when you break up seems easier. WRONG! Be as calm and understanding, because chances are she will want to know why. This is where you are completely honest with her. Every girl deserves respect and honesty, so if she want to know what she did wrong, tell her, without being too mean about it. However, if it is something that is something she definitely doesn't want to hear, it might be best to not mention that.

Two:

If you don't have a legit reason to breaking up with a girl, or you just want to be single, it might be best to not mention that you no longer want to be date anyone. This can lead to drama, especially if you are breaking up with a girl to get with her best friend. Just tell her that you need to figure out things in your life. Things that will end up ruining your relationship in the future if you don't take care of it. Tell her it is better to have her still like you, then to ruin any chance of future friendship. And guys, if you use this, don't go date around, lay low for at least a month.

Three:

If either of the two above don't fit your criteria, maybe you don't really want to break up with your lady. If you are confused at all, a good day by yourself might be key in figuring out if you really are not in the place to be in a relationship. If you decide things are over, it seems as though time off is what you need. Ask your girlfriend if she would be willing to go on a break for a few weeks, if not a month. This will give you time to figure out if you really want to be with her or not. If all else fails, the break will end your relationship for the time-being, and once on a break it is easy to end things once in for all.



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